02 December 2005

a new family member

no, no....im not pregnant yet!! hehe....my sis-inlaw is getting married....so my inlaws house will again be filled with people n crowd. tomorrow is the big day... another family member is coming in the house

haha.. my inlaws house was quite different than mine when i got married last year, ooohhh yesss!! when there's a wedding there'll be chaos.. everyone busy with doing something..... relatives starts to visit one week before the big day, asking if there;s anything to help n at the same time amik peluang nak berborak n catching up strories... neighbours will come n help n children will be running evrywhere...laughing n even crying...

hehe...yup that was my situation when i got married....!! HAVOC !! i love it though... coz..it seems very enjoyable to see the everyone is helping each other to make an event a success..
we started making souvenirs for guests 1 month after i got engaged...everyday the same routine...cutting ribbons n gluing it to the box...n it lasts for 3 months... my brother got really fed-up with the whole thing , i had to belanja him everytime he nags...hahahaha!! have their ...
i was running here n there with my parents to prepare for everythin that is needed 4 the wedding...

n alhamdulillah...everything was settled 3 weeks before the wedding, only waiting for the hantaran to finish, n the canopy n pelamin to be built....

on the other side of the whole chaos....i myself was actually preparing myself to be a wife, busy reading books n going to spa... hmmm i was quite nervous actually!! staying with a man... yes, we had known each other but staying together?? i was very nervous.... n feeling embarassed at the same time. all the questions pop out of my head...*camner kalu die terkejut tgk rambut aku hah...entah2 die tgk cam huru hara je rambut... camner kalu tidur tetiba je air liur meleleh ke apa ke* ..hahahaha all that gives me the jinx... but that's part of marridge...it comes in a package n u got to have it all, the good n the bad... pandai2lah nak jadikan yg buruk tu sbgi complement bagi diri kita...coz a life partner complements each other!

but all in all im thrilled coz this was what i was hoping n praying everyday!!... n alhamdulillah the event went well...syukur syukur syukur pada Allah....

so to my dearest sister jaja....good luck in ur new life as a wife n insya-Allah as a mother... i dun know about u, but life will change after this... n accept it as something wonderful in ur life...