a new family member

no, no....im not pregnant yet!! hehe....my sis-inlaw is getting married....so my inlaws house will again be filled with people n crowd. tomorrow is the big day... another family member is coming in the house

haha.. my inlaws house was quite different than mine when i got married last year, ooohhh yesss!! when there's a wedding there'll be chaos.. everyone busy with doing something..... relatives starts to visit one week before the big day, asking if there;s anything to help n at the same time amik peluang nak berborak n catching up strories... neighbours will come n help n children will be running evrywhere...laughing n even crying...

hehe...yup that was my situation when i got married....!! HAVOC !! i love it though... coz..it seems very enjoyable to see the everyone is helping each other to make an event a success..
we started making souvenirs for guests 1 month after i got engaged...everyday the same routine...cutting ribbons n gluing it to the box...n it lasts for 3 months... my brother got really fed-up with the whole thing , i had to belanja him everytime he nags...hahahaha!! have their ...
i was running here n there with my parents to prepare for everythin that is needed 4 the wedding...

n alhamdulillah...everything was settled 3 weeks before the wedding, only waiting for the hantaran to finish, n the canopy n pelamin to be built....

on the other side of the whole chaos....i myself was actually preparing myself to be a wife, busy reading books n going to spa... hmmm i was quite nervous actually!! staying with a man... yes, we had known each other but staying together?? i was very nervous.... n feeling embarassed at the same time. all the questions pop out of my head...*camner kalu die terkejut tgk rambut aku hah...entah2 die tgk cam huru hara je rambut... camner kalu tidur tetiba je air liur meleleh ke apa ke* ..hahahaha all that gives me the jinx... but that's part of marridge...it comes in a package n u got to have it all, the good n the bad... pandai2lah nak jadikan yg buruk tu sbgi complement bagi diri kita...coz a life partner complements each other!

but all in all im thrilled coz this was what i was hoping n praying everyday!!... n alhamdulillah the event went well...syukur syukur syukur pada Allah....

so to my dearest sister jaja....good luck in ur new life as a wife n insya-Allah as a mother... i dun know about u, but life will change after this... n accept it as something wonderful in ur life...

bukak pintu

busy with attending open houses n visiting relatives house this eid, i managed to organize an open house of my own...

i cooked nasi minyak n spaghetti bolognese...stayed up late night to cook all that...oh well, thats occasionally the case when ure making an open open house, either u cook early in the morning or stayed all night cooking....i had to cook everything at night considering izzah is sound asleep at that hour n i could rush myself to cook all the meal...

friends came n i was very happy to see all of them , coz i havent seen most of my friends since i got married... the house was fillled with laughter n of course the tantrum n cry of babies.. some was pregnant n some was busy distributing their wedding cards..

it was like a reunion u could say...im happy to see that most of them could make it...thanx a lot guys...i really appreciate it so much...although at the same time i was busy taking care of izzah n making sure that all the lauk was enough for all my guests...

my hubby was exceptionally special...he cooked the curry later on that day, when suddenly my curry had lessen.... not only that he really helped me a lot that day...thank u very much abang...

sorilah kalau ader yg tak sempat nak berbual...tapi at least dpt tgk muka.. n borak sikit2.. even not all i could take picture with...mana yg sempat je...

thanx again guys, sbb meriuhkan rumah sue hari tu.... thanx again for coming...n for those yg x smpt amik gmbr takpelah thn dpn ader lagi insya-Allah...

credit to mama for the rambutan n caramel n mak for the rojak buah...everyone loved it!!

kalu ader masa n kesempatan insya-Allah ill organize again another one next eid..

p/s bukak pintu is actually open house...my grandma always says bukak pintu as open hse...tak taula mana di edpt term tu..tp cam best jer biler guna...cam kelakar sket ayat die...hehe

aidilfitri gives another joy

tha's imm, will post georts pic i fi find it...

before i forget, congratulation to my dear friend imm, for her engagement on the 3rd day of raya....im so happy she got engaged, that i called her immediately i found out the news....
congratulation imm....

n to my dear friend nur azira aka geort(sebut betul2...pronounce as jot..) which will be getting married in december....congrats again...

im so happy for them...well u see when girls almost reaching their 30's and has no signs of getting married, people starts to wonder n talks .... macam2 la..biasala pemikiran orang melayu nih... tapi heran ek, kalu bangsa lain tu tak pulak kene ejek ape2 kalu tak kawen ke kawen lewat ke...

well i guess, malay are usually muslims...n in islam, kalu dah berboypren2 tu, mmg sangat2lah digalakkan kawen...kalu tak lain jadik nyer... well as i say earlier...everything happens for a reason...ader hikmahnyer... :)

Selamat Hari Raya 1426 Hijrah...

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Assalamualaikum...hello hello...

Happy hari raya to all... This year's eid was extra special...not only our family was bigger by one family member which is my ever so cute n adorable izzah but it was also my father in-law's birthday..yupp...it falls on the first day of raya.... i made choc banana cake n we celebrated after some of the guests went home...hehe...thn ni special ske sbb celebrate bitrhday pki baju raya...kalu tak asyik pakai baju tido je..yelah..the only time yg sumer org free malam..alamatnye attire asyik baju tido jelaaa...hehehe

this year we didnt went back to my hubby's hometown...as to give some space to my sis in-law who will be sitting her A-levels exam, best of luck nonie...*wink*..soooo i had enjoyed meeting all my cousins n aunts on the first day of raya itself....it was diff though meeting them later than on the first day itself, haha i guess the aura was diff, mana taknye kalu 1st day raya leh melaram baju raya hehehe... kalu jumpa lmbt, tak rase dah nk melaram...hehehe..
n not forgetting eating all the lontong (jawa style-wrapped in daun pisang), rendang, lodeh, sambal goreng jawa n ayam masak merah cooked by my mom..yum yum....missed all that...

izzah was especially cute wearing her maroon dress, this year our theme was pink...(hehe my fav colour).... izzah lah paling banyak baju raya....my mum bought her some, my mother inlaw lagiks, kitaorang beli lagiks, soo izzah lah yg paling meriah eventhough die masih tak paham apa2....hehe...

well.... walau dimana pun berada...di kl ke di kelantan ke....raya will always be special to me...coz that's the time to meet relatives n friends...hehe u see i like meeting people....im a people person...hahaha....(puji diri sendiri kah kah kah)

ok...got to go...nk mandikn izzah...bye...

Condolence

Innalillahi Inna Iaihi Raji'un...

Condelence to our Prime Minister...aka Pak Lah di atas pemergian isteri tersayang Datin Seri Endon...

She died at 7.55 this morning.... the whole nation grieved. No commercials, no tv programs..just recital of the quran all the way... a show of respect from the nation who loved her...

The day went gloomy as it rains the whole day...kata orang hujan rahmat...sejuk je hari ni...mungkin die orang yang baik...meninggal pun masa bulan ramadhan...lepas seksa kubur...malam ni malam nuzul quran...lebih lagi syafaatnyer kalu wat tahlil malam ni....

i do feel sad Pak Lah, coz they do look like a loving couple...during the burial of her late wife, he watched how the people settled her in the 'liang lahad' carefully, watching like an inspector waiting to say something if anything goes wrong...

he didnt cry, but from his face, i can see that he'll miss his wife...imagine married for years n sharing everything with ur soulmate, n suddenly that person next to you is not there anymore....

sob sob....semoga kita mengambil iktibar di setiap kematian yg muncul dlm hidup kita...

-Al-Fatihah-