a new family member

no, no....im not pregnant yet!! hehe....my sis-inlaw is getting married....so my inlaws house will again be filled with people n crowd. tomorrow is the big day... another family member is coming in the house

haha.. my inlaws house was quite different than mine when i got married last year, ooohhh yesss!! when there's a wedding there'll be chaos.. everyone busy with doing something..... relatives starts to visit one week before the big day, asking if there;s anything to help n at the same time amik peluang nak berborak n catching up strories... neighbours will come n help n children will be running evrywhere...laughing n even crying...

hehe...yup that was my situation when i got married....!! HAVOC !! i love it though... coz..it seems very enjoyable to see the everyone is helping each other to make an event a success..
we started making souvenirs for guests 1 month after i got engaged...everyday the same routine...cutting ribbons n gluing it to the box...n it lasts for 3 months... my brother got really fed-up with the whole thing , i had to belanja him everytime he nags...hahahaha!! have their ...
i was running here n there with my parents to prepare for everythin that is needed 4 the wedding...

n alhamdulillah...everything was settled 3 weeks before the wedding, only waiting for the hantaran to finish, n the canopy n pelamin to be built....

on the other side of the whole chaos....i myself was actually preparing myself to be a wife, busy reading books n going to spa... hmmm i was quite nervous actually!! staying with a man... yes, we had known each other but staying together?? i was very nervous.... n feeling embarassed at the same time. all the questions pop out of my head...*camner kalu die terkejut tgk rambut aku hah...entah2 die tgk cam huru hara je rambut... camner kalu tidur tetiba je air liur meleleh ke apa ke* ..hahahaha all that gives me the jinx... but that's part of marridge...it comes in a package n u got to have it all, the good n the bad... pandai2lah nak jadikan yg buruk tu sbgi complement bagi diri kita...coz a life partner complements each other!

but all in all im thrilled coz this was what i was hoping n praying everyday!!... n alhamdulillah the event went well...syukur syukur syukur pada Allah....

so to my dearest sister jaja....good luck in ur new life as a wife n insya-Allah as a mother... i dun know about u, but life will change after this... n accept it as something wonderful in ur life...

bukak pintu

busy with attending open houses n visiting relatives house this eid, i managed to organize an open house of my own...

i cooked nasi minyak n spaghetti bolognese...stayed up late night to cook all that...oh well, thats occasionally the case when ure making an open open house, either u cook early in the morning or stayed all night cooking....i had to cook everything at night considering izzah is sound asleep at that hour n i could rush myself to cook all the meal...

friends came n i was very happy to see all of them , coz i havent seen most of my friends since i got married... the house was fillled with laughter n of course the tantrum n cry of babies.. some was pregnant n some was busy distributing their wedding cards..

it was like a reunion u could say...im happy to see that most of them could make it...thanx a lot guys...i really appreciate it so much...although at the same time i was busy taking care of izzah n making sure that all the lauk was enough for all my guests...

my hubby was exceptionally special...he cooked the curry later on that day, when suddenly my curry had lessen.... not only that he really helped me a lot that day...thank u very much abang...

sorilah kalau ader yg tak sempat nak berbual...tapi at least dpt tgk muka.. n borak sikit2.. even not all i could take picture with...mana yg sempat je...

thanx again guys, sbb meriuhkan rumah sue hari tu.... thanx again for coming...n for those yg x smpt amik gmbr takpelah thn dpn ader lagi insya-Allah...

credit to mama for the rambutan n caramel n mak for the rojak buah...everyone loved it!!

kalu ader masa n kesempatan insya-Allah ill organize again another one next eid..

p/s bukak pintu is actually open house...my grandma always says bukak pintu as open hse...tak taula mana di edpt term tu..tp cam best jer biler guna...cam kelakar sket ayat die...hehe

aidilfitri gives another joy

tha's imm, will post georts pic i fi find it...

before i forget, congratulation to my dear friend imm, for her engagement on the 3rd day of raya....im so happy she got engaged, that i called her immediately i found out the news....
congratulation imm....

n to my dear friend nur azira aka geort(sebut betul2...pronounce as jot..) which will be getting married in december....congrats again...

im so happy for them...well u see when girls almost reaching their 30's and has no signs of getting married, people starts to wonder n talks .... macam2 la..biasala pemikiran orang melayu nih... tapi heran ek, kalu bangsa lain tu tak pulak kene ejek ape2 kalu tak kawen ke kawen lewat ke...

well i guess, malay are usually muslims...n in islam, kalu dah berboypren2 tu, mmg sangat2lah digalakkan kawen...kalu tak lain jadik nyer... well as i say earlier...everything happens for a reason...ader hikmahnyer... :)

Selamat Hari Raya 1426 Hijrah...

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Assalamualaikum...hello hello...

Happy hari raya to all... This year's eid was extra special...not only our family was bigger by one family member which is my ever so cute n adorable izzah but it was also my father in-law's birthday..yupp...it falls on the first day of raya.... i made choc banana cake n we celebrated after some of the guests went home...hehe...thn ni special ske sbb celebrate bitrhday pki baju raya...kalu tak asyik pakai baju tido je..yelah..the only time yg sumer org free malam..alamatnye attire asyik baju tido jelaaa...hehehe

this year we didnt went back to my hubby's hometown...as to give some space to my sis in-law who will be sitting her A-levels exam, best of luck nonie...*wink*..soooo i had enjoyed meeting all my cousins n aunts on the first day of raya itself....it was diff though meeting them later than on the first day itself, haha i guess the aura was diff, mana taknye kalu 1st day raya leh melaram baju raya hehehe... kalu jumpa lmbt, tak rase dah nk melaram...hehehe..
n not forgetting eating all the lontong (jawa style-wrapped in daun pisang), rendang, lodeh, sambal goreng jawa n ayam masak merah cooked by my mom..yum yum....missed all that...

izzah was especially cute wearing her maroon dress, this year our theme was pink...(hehe my fav colour).... izzah lah paling banyak baju raya....my mum bought her some, my mother inlaw lagiks, kitaorang beli lagiks, soo izzah lah yg paling meriah eventhough die masih tak paham apa2....hehe...

well.... walau dimana pun berada...di kl ke di kelantan ke....raya will always be special to me...coz that's the time to meet relatives n friends...hehe u see i like meeting people....im a people person...hahaha....(puji diri sendiri kah kah kah)

ok...got to go...nk mandikn izzah...bye...

Condolence

Innalillahi Inna Iaihi Raji'un...

Condelence to our Prime Minister...aka Pak Lah di atas pemergian isteri tersayang Datin Seri Endon...

She died at 7.55 this morning.... the whole nation grieved. No commercials, no tv programs..just recital of the quran all the way... a show of respect from the nation who loved her...

The day went gloomy as it rains the whole day...kata orang hujan rahmat...sejuk je hari ni...mungkin die orang yang baik...meninggal pun masa bulan ramadhan...lepas seksa kubur...malam ni malam nuzul quran...lebih lagi syafaatnyer kalu wat tahlil malam ni....

i do feel sad Pak Lah, coz they do look like a loving couple...during the burial of her late wife, he watched how the people settled her in the 'liang lahad' carefully, watching like an inspector waiting to say something if anything goes wrong...

he didnt cry, but from his face, i can see that he'll miss his wife...imagine married for years n sharing everything with ur soulmate, n suddenly that person next to you is not there anymore....

sob sob....semoga kita mengambil iktibar di setiap kematian yg muncul dlm hidup kita...

-Al-Fatihah-

Izzah is sick....

assalamualaikum....

waaaaa izzah's not well :( .....flu struck our house last week.... everyone's sick and the last in line is izzah....hmmm.....cant see her coughing and hearing her breathing with all the mucus in her nose not knowing how to blow it out.... hmm sian anak mama...

she cant sleep well at night... got to take her on my lap and assure n comfort her that mama is there throughout the uncomfortable state she's in....


me n hubby kept busy finding ways to ease her cold, n how to ease her running nose....hope itll work...its unbearable to see her suffer ....

pray hard that that she'll recover soon.... insya-Allah.....

Month of Blessing

Assalamualaikum....

off all the blogs ive read...i can see that ramadhan is much awaited month by all my friends and muslim a whole...
fasting, iftar, solat tarawikh are those that makes ramadhan a special month.
Last year i had my first ramadhan as a wife and this year as a mother... no more going to surau for tarawikh....had to do it at home...while taking care of my princess izzah....

takpe ek izzah nanti dah besar kite ikut papa gi solat tarawikh kat surau...hmmm cant wait for that time to come...ameen...

Happy Ramadhan to all .... :)

Hikmah

Assalamualaikum....Currently im glued to astro ria every day at 6.30-7.30 pm....Hikmah, watched it b4?? other than watching Rubi at 3.30-4.30 pm....haha typical housewife...takdelahhh i finished all my chores dah time tu.....hehehe

Anyway, back to Hikmah....misssed the 1st season n the beginning of the 2nd season, im interested to see the show simply because of their theme song...

'Subhanallah, Walhamdulillah, Astaghfirullah Wallauakbar... Hanya padaMu tempat ku bergantung...semua kan ada Hikmahnya....'

Just like all typical movies, where the good guys r all helpsless n the bad guys r all powerful...this story goes the same, only thing that i like, the lead heroine would never give up praying to the Almighty for all her dreams to come true, n always praying for the best to herself n to the people near her regardless whether they've been bad or good to her...n always trust that everything that happened in her life, which, usually somthg bad!! would always be a good thing (hikmah) behind it....

i like it, because that's what i believe....everything happend in our life...happend for a cause...it doesnt happen by itself....there will always be somthg good behind it....the reason doesnt have to pop out instantly, but it will come sooner or later in our life...n by that time...we will thank God for it...

why i say that...coz it happnd to me many times.... it may happnd to you too... wanna try...?? just sit down...relax...n think through ur journey of life...has anything bad or smthg u didnt plannd ..suddenly pops in to ur life...n after a while...ure greatful that it happnd...hey...thats what hikmah is all about... ;)

thrilled by one's passion

Assalamualaikum....helo helo....just read another blogger's write-out....i'm simply fascinated by her passion on the topic of islam... how much islam has made her 'complete' in every single way of her life....hmmm alhamdulillah....reminds me of myself back when i was in school.....

i was quite naughty when i was in my teenage years...always trying new things n making friends with all sorts or weird people n always trying to find an identity which end up following other ppl's persona...

it was during m school holidays when i was 16, something triggered me to join this summer camp organised by quite a popular motivator back then... ironically...at that age, i will usually go to this sort of thing with my friends but this time i went alone...

anddd...from the day i left that camp...i had found who myself were , i found what i needed in life n i found a vision in my life...

i will never forget all the things that i learnt there.... it was like...God showed me the right way....
and from then on, i was a different person....n i'm happy to be that person....

welll what really happend to me?....i guess if u know me personally u can ask me...but if not, too bad...just couldnt explain it in mail...got to come right out of my mouth to understand the changes i've gone through....

Thank u Almighty for ur Guidance....
and after that i had studied hard to achieve my goal n enterd my chosen varsity, helpd my family in any way that i could....n wished on finding my soulmate in that varsity... ha ha....n alhamdulillah...my soulmate indeed went to the same varsity.....

hmm to good to be true huh?? neee..... noooo....i had my bumps in life..every life must have its obstacle...i had gone through mine.... i know there'll be more in life ahead of me...n i hope i'll go through it strong n smooth.... with support from my family n my loved ones...

Have u ever felt that u have had just enough of someone's attitude n just couldnt be bothered to do anything about it...n just leave it as it is...

im feeling that right now...i'm tired actually.... i have always tried hard to be the best for everyone...but yet its hard to make everyone happy (hmm cam pernah dgr ayat ni tapi dimana yaaa, oo yee..blog kasih putih...hehe pinjam ek ja)

entahlaaa.... just couldnt be like i used to before..... have other commitment now...my life is different... pleaaaseee understand!!! i have tried my best ok....if ever that someone is reading my blog, hope u will learn to understand that our life r not like it used to be...we have far bigger responsibilities than to think about something like this...

i better log out before i get more stressed out...later...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY BELOVED ABANG.......

Semoga panjang umur dan dimurahkan rezeki ....it was my hubby's birthday yesterday....my in laws came yesterday to make a surprise to him, but he could smell the plan, partly it was my fault..haha sorriii noni n jaja....k sue takleh laa ngan abang ni.....takpe2 thn dpn, janji simpan rahsie betul2...hehe.....

ok abang, hope ur birthday this year was fun n a memorable one....

Assalamualaikum....hello...

Went out to send Fifi (my sis in law's cat).. for grooming....but our appointment was cancelled...too bad.... and all the hassle of finding another place for her grooming place, end up to a failure as well. Hmmm... reminds me of how much i loved cats.... which was a long time ago, to the extend of kissing the cat n sleeps in the bedroom with me....

haha...too bad..that much desire lessen when the last cat that i kept, lost... from that time onwards, cats remain as cats n no more than that...that soft spot was gone...

well, still feeling awkward with the blog...u see its been a while i started writing to something similar to a diary...

Suddenly i remembered my days when i was still a bachelor...sbb skrg ni tgh borak ngan my ex school mate cum my best friends.. teringat lak zamn dulu2....

i was quite an active person back in scholl n varsity days.... had so may friends... yup school days were definitely the best days of my life...n to add to that , i met with my dear hubby during my school days.... who could forget!!

haha...he was my classmate ..n now my husband... were in the same class for 5 years, were in the same varsity for 6 years...hahaha...

time flies when u enjoy it the most... n now those memories will still be in my mind as im building new great memories with my hubby n my dear princess right now...

hope everything will be sailing smoothly in the future..being a wife to a wonderful man..n a mother to an adorable princess...n hoping many more to come in future..hehehe...

wish me luck on having a smooth sailing along the wide ocean of life....

Assalamualaikum...hello world..thought i'll 'never do blogging..n now look at me creating my own blog...i find it interesting that i can communicate with the universe here. so then it triggered me..heck just give it a try..maybe is fun..so here it is to a new frontier in my life..sharing my thoughts with the universe...