5 tahun dah rupanye...

On the 19th March 2009..genaplah perkahwinan kami selama 5 tahun...ermmm orang tua2 kata 5 tahun pertama adalah ujian bagi satu perkahwinan..sbb masa tu nk mengenal sifat sebenar pasangan, dugaan hidup bersama mula terasa...susah senang mula diduga di dalam setiap perkahwinan...

mmg benarlah kata orang tua2 itu....although we have known each other since we were small..tapi bila ddk sebumbung n hidup bersama lain tak serupa.. macam baru nk kenal orang lain...




we pray the days ahead to be smooth..although its always not like that...hehe but its always good to pray for the best kan..

Family Day

Persatuan Student Post Grad kat sini rajin wat aktiviti, kitaorang je selalu x dpt nk join sbb hubby nyer course is masters by coursework..maksudnye apa tu?? maksudnyeeeerrrr.....kene gi kelas tetiap hari, kene wat assignment selalu, ade quiz, mid terms n so on...just like undergrad students..

PHD students are mostly by research...tu plak apa?? itu maksudnyeerrr....diorang kene wat research..cam thesis..x yah gi kelas selalu..unless mg ader..which usually once a week camtu, sibuk jugak cuma xde commitment assgmnets and quizzes and review topic nak belajar before class start every week..

oleh sbb commitment yg harus diberi kepada hubby's studies itulah kami x dpt nk join selalu and oleh sbb itulah...kami x kenal ramai sgt kat perth nie..too bad...tapi xpelah..ader jugak yg kenal..online frens..and few kenal masa gi makan2 kat umah kawan2 yang 2-3 kerat yang kami kenal kat sini..itupun jumpa skali pastu x jumpa dah..

alhamdulillah kali ni..hubby x sibuk sgt n kitaorang dpt dtg...wpun dh lama ddk sini..dtgla tersengih2 cam org baru sampai perth,..hahahah sbb x kenal ramai org.. tapi okla sumernye frendly2 belaka..we didnt feel strange at all..



izzah starting to make frens..



bersungguh nyer diriku dgn senyum kambingku..hahahaha


syirah yg tidak bergerak kemana2..



izzah juga yg paling gembira..hehe..happy for her..actually pegi pun mmg pasal die..biar die enjoy main ngan kawan2..

errrrmm

Memangla kan kite ni makhluk Allah yg lemah...cuaca berubah sikit je dh x menentu badan kite.. kalu kat Msia org demam, batuk2 sbb kejap2 hujan2..kejap2 panas..
kat sini pun sama..cuma xde hujan laa..tetiba sejuk yg teramat..pastu panas yg teramat..ya Allah..anak2 pun demam aritu..alhamdulillah la xde apa2 yg serious..(im always extra worried when they're sick..yela takut jadi cam izzah dulu)

then i was sick..lepas dh baik..2-3 lepas kene serangan migrain..ya Allah..lamanye x kene migrain...denyut2 kepala ni rase nk terkeluar biji mata...macam2 lagi simptom penyakit yg kene..sakit tekak la, ulcer laa..ermm petanda x cukup multi vitamin x cukup minum air..aihhh..

tapi apa pun syukur la the rest of the family x kene apa2 yg seious..

ok..tukar topik..

most my family n frens are considering to quit their job..some are still hesitant n some thinks is the right thing to do..

personal opinion..if u wanna work at home actually its more challenging...
think of it as this way...u being the nursery care taker n working at the same time..
ive been to seminars and hear from people who have done it..and say its not an easy thing to do..but its really worth it!!..
key word..DISCIPLINE... like one lady nih masa seminar tu, she's an engineer..so she quit from mana entah n start doing consultation from home..
her routine..pagi- bangun awal siap bfast, bekal anak2..hantar ank sekolah..balik umah kemas2...8-11am..die akan masuk bilik and put a sign on her door saying..mommy's working... after 11- kuwar bilik siap kan lunch amik anak sekolah..sumer pastu layan anak...n i forgot the rest of it..hehe..but she did plan her time well.

but kene disiplin time laa..at the end of the day..eventhogh she's tired..but it really pays off that she can be with her kids..watching them eat bfast, lunch n dinner in front of her..and help with their homework..coz usually she's used to going out early morning n come back when her kids are asleep...anak die pun x kenal die..she took the decision to quit bcoz her kids were crying like mad when her maid berenti n masa nk hantar kat klia..merengek nk ikut maid die..hati ibu mana yg x sebak tgk anak lebih prefer maid dr ibu die sendiri...

i have tried biz at home and i tell u its not easy..i really do think my time management sucks, thats the reason i am always on the rush to do all my chores..esp when orders are coming in..but deep inside i believe kalu niat kite ikhlas nk ddk umah n be a btter wife n mother, Allah will help us..

im trying to do better in my time management, coz when i go back to msia..byk plan dlm kepala ni nk expand biz..tapi itu sumer kene bincangg betul2 ngan hubby..sbb takut anak2 terabai..kene plan properly..

to my dear family n frens..good luck in ur biz as a stepping stone to a better life..i pray for the best in u guys..n i will insya-Allah support u in anyway i can..
ameen..